Begin with What You Know
Writing a loved one’s story can be a rewarding but emotional experience. The best way to start is by jotting down the facts you already know. Begin with their full name, date of birth, and place of birth. These basic details create a foundational starting point that you can build upon.
Next, identify their immediate family members. Write down the names of their parents and any siblings they may have had. Try to recall what they were like, how they interacted, and any special memories that stand out. Relationships are a significant part of anyone’s life story.
Educational background is another key area to explore. Where did they go to school? Did they attend university or take up vocational training? These experiences often shape a person more than we imagine and add depth to their history.
Marital and personal milestones are also essential to the story. Document when they got married, to whom, and any significant anniversaries or family celebrations. These moments form the tapestry of a life well lived and help future generations understand the significance of these relationships.
Filling in the Gaps and Preserving Memories
Once you’ve established the framework, it’s time to fill in the gaps. Reach out to family members or friends who may hold pieces of the puzzle you don’t have. Perhaps someone else remembers an important story or holds a treasured artifact like a photo or handwritten note.
Photos and videos breathe life into written stories. As you collect these, be sure to note who is in each image, when it was taken, and where (if known). Describe what made that moment special or unique. This context turns a simple photo into a cherished narrative.
Oral histories are another rich source of information. Consider interviewing older relatives and recording their recollections. Their voices and memories often capture expressions and stories that can’t be duplicated in writing alone. With the Resting Place Connections® platform is just the resource for collecting, preserving and sharing these details. Here, you can upload text, images, audio, and video files in one location. The platform allows you to gradually build the story over time and even invite others to contribute.
If you’d like help with the process, Resting Place Connections® also offers professional services. You can purchase hours with someone experienced in story writing to collaborate with you. This support can provide structure and guidance, making the process smoother and more enjoyable.
Don’t worry about having everything perfect from the start. The beauty of a life story is that it can evolve. As new memories come to light or additional photos are found, the story can grow richer and more complete. Remember, it’s the journey of remembering and honoring that truly matters, and with Resting Place Connections® you can log in and add information at any time.